So i was recently kindly ejected from the love of my life’s, life. If that made sense? Anyways so she told me that we were good for each other for the year and four months that we were together..but now we just weren’t what each other needed any more. That she felt like I meant to love her, but I didn’t really.
To be completely honest I think she is crazy but that is beside the point. What I’m getting at is that people are going to break your heart in attempt to protect their own, or because they are not emotionally there. Because everyone has wounds and issues or problems that they have to deal with. So we as fellow humans, or the majority of us feel as if we need to be there to help our friends and family, and occasionally even strangers through a tough time.
How you address your wounds however is very critical. I found that I have to keep myself busy, occupying almost every minute of every day. After giving over a year of your life to somebody, it is very difficult to let go of them. Most of all, it is excruciating seeing them with someone else almost immediately after yall have separated. But it’s how you respond to these tough things that build you up and make you a stronger individual.